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What the heck Is this?!?! This is all that we have?!?!?

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Updated: Apr 4, 2023


Raising my son has been an expansive challenge that stands me on my toes. My common-sense brain wants to make sense of what has happened to me, for me and with me. To recollect, relearn and reorganize my thoughts. All the things that revolved around me, before me and after. All that around my childhood to learn whatever it was I could feel deep in my gut, that should have been there all along. All this, needed attention to be detailed to heal it.

This is my legacy, The tools I wish I had when I knew things just didn't Add up. I have set out to compile the lessons I didn't have and wish I did have to keep my truth and my compass intact and more aligned. A more direct effective way that leads us with inner peace, courage and confidence, this is what I feel when I describe what "Knowing" feels like..

I think there are many of us that ended up somewhere confused in life, with the thoughts of, what the hell happened? How did I get here? Something deep remains unleashed within us.... So... Lets Walk down this for a minute together...

If our habitual mental mind frame is built to keep you alive our body is made for survival and hence the cells repeating the life and death cycle. The contained resonance of constant change with in its self preserving love. All this is Energy and It's all designed to keep us alive in Balance and harmony to provide. It's hard to change, because to change is a skill to learn or even live by. Tell a baby or a toddler to change. Tell a grown ass man to change. It's not easy, and we have built the entirety of our spirituality and life practices around the can or can nots. Around our capabilities to be or not to be; to change or not to change anything that is or around us.

There are a few things that conclude our maturity, outside of being developed enough to have a cognitive frontal cortex reponses dialed in. Maturity has absolutely NOTHING to do with your age, but has more to do with these few tools that just might change how we see things in its entirety as sovereign made beings.... #1 How to Identify Fallacy... #2.Simple Vs. Complex Hierarchies #3Intelligent Emotion. #4Contained Evolution. (Disciplined Systems Engineering your life)

#1 The Logical fallacies are errors in reasoning or argumentation that can undermine the validity of an argument. There are many Examples to be studied. They are often used to mislead or distract from another party from the truth, or to win an argument by appealing to emotions rather than reason. It's important to be aware of these fallacies in order to critically evaluate arguments and avoid being misled. The World is full of people hurt and unable to connect in a way that gets them their needs upfront and direct. With a layout of these reasoning tools this conducts one to block unnecessary energy sucking manipulations. Being Clear and concise direction into the world, will bring way less bullshit into our lives.

#2 Complex vs Simple Hierarchy systems: It is a simple understanding that we can learn from ANYTHING, ANYWHERE, FROM ANYONE... It’s a Circle of Resonance and not a linear tuned line of authority... The structure of the world today lays in that complex authority system. It holds us as a glued into a sort of Lego/Matrix... Your Authority figures have placed a regiment of Higher ups that control our environments and eventually our minds... Sit Down Shut Up and Fall In-Line. It’s been the glorification to our weakness and lack of courage to consider we are not good enough to say what's in our hearts anymore, it’s been pushed back by this very system... Who's the Boss here?

#3 Intelligent Emotion: How do you be a friend to anger, sadness or jealousy...? Treat each emotion accordingly as if it’s been separated from you… This self-love conservation regulating balance/ harmony is to provide and interact as the tools to keep us alive. It takes intelligent emotion to move forward in COURAGE, where we are programmed to have none. Courage to stand in our truth or to keep validity to our bodies long enough to hold intuition that finds our truths within our being, and how they feel. I am all that I need... and that authentic selflove radiates outwards in ones sovereign Truth

This including the awareness on how one can be a better INTERGATOR of LOVE

#4 Contained Evolution. (Disciplined Systems Engineering your life). A Recipe to your Design, Self Guide and Self Learned in the matter subject of You! … Taking aligned action to your goals looks like a million layers of built-up dimensions of time... Your Mental mind and body is designed to Correlate a Hormonic system and its our duty to Honor that system. Daily, Routinely, Introspectively Containing Daily Actions that Compromise the 3D world. We all have come to understand that the giraffe cannot live like a fish and the fish is not the bird and how each of these unique beings have comprised their lives as individuals ... Black and White has the power of grey and that grey line is the freedom we forgot about... its the win/win in every story and the forgotten truth of inner peace.

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Born and raised in the sub-burbs of Seattle Washington. I quickly started my profession after high school in Holistic Health and esthetics in 2004 where I mastered European esthetician facials, lymphatic drainage and hot cold therapies. In my Youth I also enjoyed very much the world of make up and coloring hair,  in 2008 I went for my cosmetology license. I mastered cuts, color nails, wedding up styles and makeup. I helped start two new salons with a mentor of mine. Until 2012 when I moved to Big Sky , Montana and started my own Salon. Opening at first a small shop that later turned into a Dream salon of my own with three hair chairs, three pedi and mani stations and a small practitioner/esthetics room.  We served the small ski town of Big Sky: its residents a town of 3,000+, Travelers passing through on to west Yellowstone, vacationers that flew in and the enthusiastic Skiers, Bikers, Hikers and fishing folks of course. Where I happily served for nearly 4 years until 2020 shot the gun in my foot and I did what a lot of people did then...   decided to take a long break....    For one reason and another I had made the decision to quit hairstyling and move on to something else... Having a young boy of my own and wanting to enjoy more of him and questioning my life and the salon industry as a whole. I've opened myself up to the land of learning. Farming culture, raising food, foraging, Herbalism, canning along with learning more about myself who I am. 

 

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